Many of the beauties we see around ask these questions. But really, can and should a lady, married or unmarried – by that I mean courtship and the already married ladies. Can and should she cater for the family or her man? Situations arise where, maybe after a while, the guy’s job is not productive as it used to, or he happens to lose his job and ”ends” can no longer meet, can and should the lady fend for them both and the family?
If you – the lady, has the means, PLEASE fend for you both and the family. Being in a relationship is not a child’s play. That is why relationships are not for CHILDREN and the young at heart because it involves doing things and taking and handling weighty responsibilities in a well founded relationship.
This means that your relationship must have been well defined before you make any such sacrifices and YES, you can and you SHOULD. Truth is, you do not need to wait until your man looses his job before you buy him stuff, cook with what you might call ”your own money”, and take him out for a treat. You shouldn’t always be at the receiving end, GIVE to your man. When you do this, do it from your heart and see the blessings that follow from the lips of the man you want to be yours or your own man as the case may be. There is no such thing as ”my money” in any relationship. Do things together and be reasonable when you spend.
GIVE TO YOUR MAN TODAY AND SMILE.
REALITIES 